
Patti Canning at our wedding.
Be careful what you ask for Chris:

Front row: Patti Canning and Diane Russell
Back row: Aunt Rosemary Hausdoerffer, Flo, Susan, Diane, cousin Drucilla Strain, Aunt Doris Mapes
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The summer of 1992, South Haven, Minnesota, on Lake Sylvia, home of James & Susan Stochl. Diane shares book with Matthew and Skibby; Matthew shares drink with Skibby.
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“I am always aware of the impermanence of street painting. Wind, sun, dirt, and rain constantly remind me as I work of the very fleeting nature of this type of painting. All day long, as I’m creating a new part of the picture, I can see the finished parts already fading. It’s a challenge to retouch the picture and keep it fresh for spectators. I’m not disappointed when the painting washes away because street painting is performance art, it’s very much like attending a symphony. When the music ends everyone leaves with a memory of the music. My work is the same except one is left with a visual impression. And much like musical recording helps preserve a moment, I photograph my paintings when they’re finished. ”

Rogers, Pittsburgh Post Gazette
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The Return of Wolfman and Girlfriend

Every couple in America has one of these. Most are wise enough
not to diplay them in public, but we’re willing to sacrifice our diginity
for The Blog.
I thought of Adam when I read this, but then I remembered Mona Lisa’s Smile.
Ed’s adult competition . Not to mention, who Ed is. Yesterday a faithful blog reader asked me if Chris were a man or a woman.
Just when you thought it was cold in New England, this sent by
Susan, from Lake Sylvia, Minnesota.

Two More

I may have this wrong, but I think:
Emily and Sarah McCarthy, Seah, Ginger, Laura & Kathleen Collins. Help me out here, Ginger,
Diane, anyone … .
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Ned, Anita,Ginger, Brian, Helen, and Mack.
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Twice A Week Is Too Much
Ed Schmahl
When you get to a certain age, like me, a mere mumblety-mumble years old, there seem to be limits on your activity that didn’t exist when you were a teenager, or a thirty-something, or even a forty-something. But I can’t resist trying. When the call comes, I can’t say no. The lure is too strong, the primal urge too powerful to struggle. I have to say, “Yes, yes, yes, now is fine, let’s do it.” For a year, it was just once a week, but now I’m called to double my efforts, and so I do what I must.
The siren song of the swing of the racquet, the “plock” of the ball against the walls, the magic of the three-dimensional trajectory between the bounce and the hit, all of these are irresistible. When I’m invited to play, I never turn down the request.
Patrick and I enjoyed our weekly racquetball games on a regular basis from 2002 to mid-2003, and then Dominic Zarro, a fellow worker at Goddard, found that I’m a racquetball junkie like he used to be, and asked me to play. We started playing regular r-ball just about the time that Katie got involved in the game. But what saved me from tendinitis ruin and knee mutilation was that the only day of the week that both she and Patrick could play was Thursday, and so we played “cut-throat”, a 3-way game of racquetball. Katie, being a beginner, Patrick and I played against her left-handed, and what a relief that was! It was a kinder, gentler game, so much fun, and so relaxing, I didn’t care who won. Unlike the 2-player games between Patrick and me, where it was a deadly serious duel to the finish, our cut-throat games were full of laughs and wild swings and left-handed misses. So playing an additional few games against Dominic on Saturdays every week wasn’t the arm-wracker that it would have been if Katie hadn’t got interested in the game..
Dominic, now in his mid-50s youth, used to be a really tough player back in the last age. His super-spinner 3-wall returns were absolutely deadly, and his left-corner serves were unhittable. But his love for pasta has gotten the better of him, and now being totally out of shape, I can exploit my left-right-left-wear-him-down strategy (which totally fails with Patrick). Just let Dominic miss his target once on that left-corner serve, and I’d set up a volley, returning first to one side, then the other, forcing him to run back and forth across the court over and over. I didn’t try for “kills”, and just set up returns to wear him down. So usually by the 2nd game, he was panting like a racehorse, and then I could beat him by increasing amounts like 15-10, 15-8, 15-4 in the next 3 games. Finally, not having the strength to do more than shuffle, he’d have to cry “uncle”, and retire for the day.
Last summer Dominic took his family back to see his parents in Australia in Sydney, his home town. He had promised to himself that he’d do a lot of walking and keep fit while there so he’d play better r-ball when he returned. But his mom’s cooking was too good, and he gained 10 pounds. So when he returned to Maryland, my wear-him-down strategy continued to work.
Katie, being more serious about school than racquetball (how could I raise a daughter with such strange priorities?) couldn’t always play on the regulation Thursday. So once in a while, Patrick and I played our usual exhausting one-on-one. And a couple of weeks ago, the day after a tough 4-game series with Patrick, when Dominic called to find out if he should reserve a court at the Community Center tomorrow, I couldn’t resist. I said, “Sure”, and went to the medicine cabinet to call on Dr. Ibo-advil Motrin to get ready.
The next morning on the court, Dominic was “on”. He was wired. His left-corner serves were bullets into the center of the bulls-eye, and his sneaky side-wall-front-grazer shots fell in place like they were ruled by a stylus. I squeaked ahead of him on the scoreboard, only because his precisely-repeated serves to my left have given me some practice, and I’ve learned to change my stance while waiting for the serve, so I can throw my body weight behind my weak backhand. I managed to win 15-13.
Strangely, however, after this game, Dominic didn’t look tired. What happened? Did he eat Wheaties this morning instead of spaghetti? Did he have a double venti espresso before the game? He was still “on” as we started the second game, and his bullet serves to the left were more accurate than ever. He moved ahead 5-0. “I’m getting skunked!” I muttered to myself. He pulled further ahead, mixing up one side-wall-front-grazer shot after another. His lead reached 8-2. I bore down and got a few more points, and then it was 10-5. As the rallies and serves proceeded, I slowly crept up on him, and it was 13-11, but still his favor. He scored a point. 14-11. I scored a point. It was 14-12. He lost his serve when I returned a near-kill too far from him to return. Then I lost my serve when he dropped in a side-wall-front-grazer. He lost his next serve when I returned with a sidewall scraper. I lost my serve when he hit a killer return. It was still 14-12, and I refused to give up. We had traded 4 serves in a row without a score, but it was still “point-game” for him. He served a slow bullet to the left corner, I returned it. It was a hard one for him to return, and his shot was an easy one to my right hand off the rear wall. leapt towards the back, knowing just where I’m going to hit this one, and, and,…time stops.
Somehow my racquet gets in the way, maybe hitting the wall, and my pirouette that would turn me into position to catch the ball on the horizontal bounce spins out of control, and I take a head-first dive into the back wall. Meanwhile Dominic is at mid-court, waiting for the return, expecting a speed ball to come flying past him, but there is nothing but a couple of “splonks”, like meat hitting concrete. He turns around, and sees me lying on my back, peering at the ceiling. My goggles have flown off somewhere, my glasses have been ripped off. He looks down at my head with a worried expression. Blood is dripping from my eyebrow where the goggles tried to penetrate. I’m just beginning to feel the pain in my forehead and right knee which seem to have hit the wall simultaneously. Dominic says in his Aussie accent, “Don’t get up. Are you all right? What happened? Did you get knocked out? Wow, you’ve got a walnut-sized bump on your forehead. I don’t think you’re going to want to look in the mirror!”
Time began again. After feeling my forehead, and checking the signals from my other body parts, I decided I was sort of OK. Gradually I turned around from my seated position, putting all fours to the ground, keeping my right leg straight while standing up. Dominic looked seriously concerned, but I didn’t feel woozy or wobbly. I said, “Maybe we shouldn’t try to finish that game. I’ll give it to you.”
Fortunately it was a Saturday, so I could sit on the couch in the living room wearing a cold patch on my forehead ministered by nurse Beth. The walnut mostly receded by the next day, and by Monday I just had a weird yellowish blob below my hairline, just enough to scare little children and worry their mothers. On Thursday I played Patrick 3 games, and survived. But on Saturday morning, the neck aches and shoulder throbs were back. Dr. Ibo was consulted. Then my Aussie friend called, “Are you up for a game at 10?” he asked. My forebrain whispered, “No, No”, but my limbic brain shouted, “Yes, yes. I’ll be there. I’m leaving for the gym now.” The scratch must be itched, and the urge must be followed.

The competition: Katie & Patrick
Fishermen

Matthew, Jim & Skibby
If Matthew were awake, he could tell me how many times heÃs been to
Minnesota to visit Jimmy and Susan. I think it used to be and may still be,
more times than years he is old.
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Diane asked me the other night if I knew where this photograph was. I said, no, but that IÃd look. We have unlabeled boxes of pictures in various places, that contain unlabeled photo envelopes, in which are unlabeled photos. I knew it would be a fun hunt, but a time consuming one. How time consuming, I could never have guessed. It was in the same box of photos as those below, of the Candee sisters and the BMW. In a closet in GingerÃs house.
Photo taken in our apartment on Beacon St. in Somerville, and because there is no simple description on the back, I going to guess the year is 1973. Btw, rakkity lived with us in that apartment. And as I recall, we were responsible for him meeting his wife, Beth, his near death experience in front of that house, and his successful career as a solar astronomer. (How right you are, Beth, encouragement, we don’t need)
A closer look at the braided cook
Incarnation

Joan, Ginger, Cathy and Barbara Candee
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This photo isn’t only about the two, young, stylishly dressed women. I mean it was at the time … .
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A few things:
About image quality. I think my scanner is reaching the end of its life. I get scan lines that never appeared before, and they take a certain amount of filtering to reduce, but that also makes the images less distinct. Plus, we’re scanning old (ancient?) photos that weren’t necessarily all that great at the time. And, many were developed on matte (read: pebbly) paper that presents its own scan issues.
If you have a smallish monitor and have your resolution set at 800 x 600, then the small images are huge and the larger images are pointless to click on. Also, the format of the page changes so that all the recent entry links sit at the bottom of the page. If your resolution is set high, as mine is, or DanÃs ( running an impossibly small 1900 x 1200), then the present format works fine.
Obviously I canÃt accommodate everyone, but viewing the blog at the Schriebers has prompted me to once again reduce the size of the small, main page images. If this change is not good, let me know. IÃm a crowd pleaser, and will follow majority opinion.
For what itÃs worth, I buy inksell inks from inksell.com. They are a third the cost of Epson inks and almost never clog. For color photos they take longer to dry, but so what.
Golden Years

Photo of Chris’s grandparents-in-law circa 1930.
They didn’t have great means but what a classy photo. Both lived well into
their 90’s. Though as he used to say “the golden years…they’re not so
golden”.
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Wedding Party 1970

Susan & Jimmy Stochl
Frank, Florence, Patti, Diane.
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Reaping the Benefits
Adam Kibbe

Image repeated from the July 03, 2003 addition log entry, the day Mike, Matt and Robby insulated our sunroom. In this recent spate of subzero weather, the room has still been comfortable to inhabit. The radiant heat in the floor helps (mostly just keeps the tile from feezing our feet), but the quality of the insulation is paramount. Thanks, Mike!!!!!
Wolfman and Girlfriend

It is so much easier to scan and post photos than write something worth
reading.
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Canning Family (Early Years)

Frank, Diane, Florence and Susan.
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