{"id":2961,"date":"2008-05-03T13:02:03","date_gmt":"2008-05-03T17:02:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mainecourse.com\/mt\/?p=2961"},"modified":"2008-05-03T13:02:03","modified_gmt":"2008-05-03T17:02:03","slug":"lawrence-weinstein","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mainecourse.com\/mt\/2008\/05\/03\/lawrence-weinstein\/","title":{"rendered":"Lawrence Weinstein"},"content":{"rendered":"

I read about Dr. Weinstein in the Globe last night, and then I found a review on the web of his upcoming lecture to send to Adam. Adam wrote back, “A man after my own heart, in that I sense that he would likely ascribe to my conviction that intention and grace — in whatever form the latter occurs for any given individual — is valuable.” Unlike a normal person, who would have replied to Adam directly, I decided to post the forward and introduction of Weinstein’s book , “Grammar for the Soul: Using Language for Personal Change,” on the blog. <\/span><\/p>\n

The paragraph that hooked my fleeting attention span? <\/span><\/p>\n

“You know how they say that when your home is cluttered, so is your mind? Weinstein believes the same is true of grammar — if your commas are out of place, so is your soul.”<\/p>\n

Introduction<\/p>\n

The limits of my language mean the limits of my world.
\n\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2 Ludwig Wittgenstein<\/p>\n

Grammar? In most people\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s minds, the closest synonym for \u00e2\u20ac\u0153grammar\u00e2\u20ac\u009d is \u00e2\u20ac\u0153chore.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d It\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s about as inspiring a thought as \u00e2\u20ac\u0153dust cloth.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d It certainly seems to have no place in a discussion of ways to realize one\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s potential as a whole person. All the same, I wish to suggest that our list of activities capable of hastening personal growth be expanded beyond yoga, meditation, and the martial arts to include the wise use of syntax and punctuation. During my first twenty years as a teacher of writing at the college level, I would not have dreamed of suggesting this idea. Like my colleagues, I viewed grammar\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s importance strictly in terms of communication: only by following its rules can we Homo sapiens make our thoughts clear to one another. A randomly ordered, unmarked string of words such as \u00e2\u20ac\u0153you rake hand me that would\u00e2\u20ac\u009d is gibberish, whereas the correctly sequenced, punctuated sentence \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Would you hand me that rake?\u00e2\u20ac\u009d gets the job done. That was grammar\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s great contribution to us\u00e2\u20ac\u201dbut its only contribution, insofar as I could tell.<\/p>\n

2| Introduction<\/p>\n

If, during those first twenty years in the classroom, I saw a connection between grammar and mental health, it was a negative one: a sizeable fraction of my students at both Harvard University and Bentley College had been verbally traumatized in the name of grammar. Their high school teachers had red-marked their papers so heavily for split infinitives, tense shifts, pronoun reference problems, run-ons, fragments, and the like that now they feared committing words to paper at all. They approached blank sheets of paper as they might a minefield. I actually once wrote an essay on those students\u00e2\u20ac\u2122 behalf entitled \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Grammar, What Big Teeth You Have.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d I did not begin to think about how attention to grammar can enhance morale until I read some articles by linguist Benjamin Lee Whorf. According to him, any language\u00e2\u20ac\u201dEnglish or Hopi or Chinese\u00e2\u20ac\u201ddoes more than enable its speakers to make their thinking clear to each other: it somewhat molds their thinking. By making it easier to express certain thoughts than others (and which thoughts those are, he says, differs from language to language), a language helps determine what one thinks and feels in the first place. In English, for example, we have tenses that separate the present from the past\u00e2\u20ac\u201dthat put the past behind us, in effect, implying it will never come again\u00e2\u20ac\u201dand most of us who think in English therefore try not to \u00e2\u20ac\u0153waste\u00e2\u20ac\u009d time; we move in a hurry. By comparison, the Hopi Indians Whorf studied\u00e2\u20ac\u201dwhose management of tense implied that \u00e2\u20ac\u0153everything that ever happened still is\u00e2\u20ac\u009d\u00e2\u20ac\u201dhad less incentive to live fast and therefore led more measured lives.<\/p>\n

3 | Introduction<\/p>\n

A language, Whorf believed, can contribute either to neuroses (his term) or to more expansive, adaptive ways of thinking and being.
\nWhen I encountered Whorf, I knew little about differences between whole national grammars, but a fair amount about differences between the grammar of one English speaker and the grammar of another. Each of my students represented a distinct grammatical profile within English. One never used a question mark\u00e2\u20ac\u201dor a hedging phrase or clause\u00e2\u20ac\u201dbut would use italics and adverbial intensifiers (\u00e2\u20ac\u0153without doubt,\u00e2\u20ac\u009d \u00e2\u20ac\u0153very,\u00e2\u20ac\u009d \u00e2\u20ac\u0153extremely,\u00e2\u20ac\u009d etc.) freely. Another stood out for inserting the occasional parenthesis or dash as a conversational touch. A third wrote sentences so long that they created the impression she couldn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t bear to part with them, and a fourth wrote only sentences of twenty-two words or less, each built along the simplest of lines from subject to predicate to object. In the course of reading Whorf, I began to wonder if his central insight applied to all these private languages as well as national ones. Could these linguistic differences be linked to different ways of thinking and living? If so, that seemed worth knowing, since making the right changes in one\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s grammar might then be expected to improve one\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s life, to some degree. Deciding to test my thesis on the speaker with whom I had the most influence, I resolved to start noticing the effects of my grammatical decisions on my own quality of life. As my experiment continued, this often meant behaving like a patient in a medical study and taking my soul\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s vital signs. Respiratory rate? I learned that I don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t breathe as freely when I avoid use of the firstperson pronoun as when I use it. Pulse? A certain way of managing the future tense keeps the beat steady, regard-less of setbacks and unpleasant surprises. Temperature? Some grammatical moves\u00e2\u20ac\u201dthe use of ellipses, for example\u00e2\u20ac\u201dwarm up my relations with the people around me by implying tacit, shared knowledge, and I feel warmer.<\/p>\n

Like my student who wrote endless sentences, I could go on and on in this vein: It makes a difference to my self-esteem whether I put a phrase bearing bad news about myself before the coordinate conjunction \u00e2\u20ac\u0153but\u00e2\u20ac\u009d or after it. It affects my level of hopefulness when I rely exclusively on forms of the verb \u00e2\u20ac\u0153to be,\u00e2\u20ac\u009d which reduce both things and people to static entities. I have now recorded scores of such connections between grammar and my own well-being, some pronounced, others subtle. Conceivably, at least, every attribute a person might desire to develop\u00e2\u20ac\u201dfrom decisiveness in an emergency to trust and generosity and the ability to tolerate uncertainty\u00e2\u20ac\u201dstands to benefit from changes in one\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s verbal conduct, as I hope to show.<\/p>\n

I have come to view the realm of grammar as a kind of rarefied gymnasium, where\u00e2\u20ac\u201dinstead of weights, a treadmill, mats, and a balance beam\u00e2\u20ac\u201done finds active verbs, passive verbs, periods, apostrophes, dashes, and a thousand other pieces of linguistic equipment, each of which, properly deployed, can provide exercise for the spirit like that which gym apparatus provides the body. Grammar can become a place to get in spiritual shape.<\/p>\n

4 | Introduction<\/p>\n

Several years into my self-study, I began to write short essays on my findings. The result is the book in your hands, an amalgam of reflections and very specific tips to try. For a while, I wrestled with embarrassment about publishing a book of practical suggestions for enhancing one\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s quality of life by such novel means. Even with the help of well-established practices like meditation, no significant personal change occurs easily or quickly, and I didn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t wish to imply otherwise when it comes to grammar\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s help. I think often of the lines in Philip Larkin\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s poem \u00e2\u20ac\u0153Aubade\u00e2\u20ac\u009d about each person\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s having just one stretch of years in which to live. \u00e2\u20ac\u0153An only life,\u00e2\u20ac\u009d he says,<\/p>\n

. . . can take so long to climb
\nClear of its wrong beginnings, and may never.<\/p>\n

Still, I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ve told myself, many people clear that bar when they find the kinds of help that suit them personally; everyone deserves to know what has benefited others. For the right person, that mere feather-weight, a comma, can alter the course of a day.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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